Odd Manischewitz Out

Several of my Jewish friends have found love on JDate. I am a 32-year-old man who isn't Jewish and has no aspiration to convert but would like to give JDate a try. Huge faux pas?

--Lapsed Catholic

JDate advertises that its mission is sustaining "Jewish traditions" -- apparently including the tradition of pissing off one's parents by getting together with a Catholic. Where I live, in the 21 to 41 age group, I counted 279 non-Jewish JDaters, including four lesbians looking for nice Jewish girls. The thing to be wary of is that people are prone to be overly inclusive at the point of sale. A woman may sincerely believe some interfaithy thing can work, and then the relationship gets serious and her parents lay on the pressure, and before you know it, you're getting dumped for Shlomo McShlomowitz. Should you end up dating some hot Hebrew, as tempting as it is to focus on all the ways you're compatible, you'd better dig into all the ways you're not. Sure, relationships are compromise, but it's one thing to put off the zombie movie till next weekend and another thing entirely to try to answer the question "What will the children be?" with "Jewish on Wednesdays and Catholic on the weekends?"