Likes It Soggy-Style

My boyfriend has a strange fetish: He gets very turned on seeing me in soaking wet blue jeans and likes me to wear them in the tub. My sister says I should dump him and find someone normal. However, he treats me great and sex is great...just add water.

--Drenched

"Just add jellyfish," and you've got a problem. Yeah, it's a little unusual: "Honey, I'm drawing you a bath. Wanna get dressed?" But, if it doesn't creep you out or cost you your job, what's the big deal? You're consenting adults. It's not like he's demanding you hold the cat underwater while he's filling the tub. In relationships, people do all sorts of things to please their partners: change their religion, drive a hybrid, regrout the bathroom. It's when the request is sex-related that other people get all eeked out. Frankly, with the crazy letters I get about where people are putting spikes in other people's bodies, your boyfriend's fetish is most noteworthy for how G-rated it is. Just go into any sex shop, ask for their rack of pre-shrunk, boot-cut Levis, and they'll laugh you out of the place -- all the way to that famous sexual fetishwear purveyor, otherwise known as The Gap.