Afternoon Delete

I met a guy on an Internet dating site, and had two great dates. It's only been a couple days, but the interaction has changed. He isn't initiating contact, just replying to e-mail I send him. Should I call to ask what happened since that second date?

--Flummoxed

The ability to interrogate is something so many men look for in a woman, and the sooner the better: "It's been two whole days since our second date. Exactly what are you doing while you're not calling me?" On the Internet or off, only if a guy initiates another date should you consider him a possibility. But, the Internet dating venue could be part of the problem. In a bar, there might be another cute girl or two; on the Web, there are always 10,000 more where you came from. Studies by social psychologist Sheena S. Iyengar and others suggest humans want a vast array of options, but with more than a handful, tend to choose poorly and be unhappy with their choices. And, you know what they say...misery loves company -- providing it's spiritual but not religious, toned/athletic, and not into games.